Getting a Girlfriend Doesn't Have to Be "Rocket Science"
I know, sometimes it seems like the deck is so stacked against you if you are just a regular guy, that getting a girlfriend can seem kind of complicated. It might seem like you have to practically be a mind reader to figure out what women want, and if you are not able to read a woman's mind, then you are pretty much out of luck. Or, it might seem like you have to be wealthy or have a rock solid physique to get a girlfriend. While it may seem like that is the way that it has to be, there are ways to make things a lot easier for yourself and that doesn't mean that you have to get buff or you have to get rich. You just have to understand what it takes to meet women and make a woman feel like she wants to date You.
Here are 6 tips that should make getting a girlfriend seem less like rocket science and more like something that you can easily do:
1) Guys who get girlfriends easily also know how to socialize in many different situations.
Being that meeting women has a lot to do with your social skills, it is easy to understand why this is. When you have the ability to socialize in many different situations, you don't have to worry about being in the right place to do well with women. You'll make any environment become the right place just because you know how to socialize and you know how to position yourself as someone that women want to meet and someone that they want to be around.
2) It's always going to be a numbers game.
I know, it would be nice to have the kind of skill where you could literally get any woman that you want to, but that just isn't being realistic. No matter what, you are going to have to play the numbers a bit. That means that you can't suffer from "one woman only" syndrome where you become attracted to one woman and you can't think about anyone else. That's okay when you are already in a relationship with a woman, but until you get to that point, you do have to play the numbers game a bit and at least have a couple of options.
3) The clothes don't always make the man, but it's easier to make a good impression when you look good.
You don't have to worry so much about the way that you look that you become one of those guys who is obsessed with clothes and hair and that kind of thing. However, to ignore the fact that first impressions do matter and a lot of a woman's first impression IS going to be based on how you look, you don't want to look like a bum. Give yourself the best odds and try to look as good as you can. It's just so much easier to make a good first impression when you do.
4) You need to be aware of the fact that women don't always want what they say that they want.
This is what confuses most men. They hear women talk about meeting nice guys who do all of that sappy stuff right away and you think that this means that this is what they want. Then, you see those same women falling for guys who do none of that stuff and it makes you wonder why that is. It all comes back to the fact that women don't always want the things that they say that they do. You have to pay attention more to what works, versus what women say that they want.
5) Online dating should be a part of your search for a girlfriend, but it should not be the only place that you look.
Nowadays online dating sites are a part of the dating landscape and you don't want to ignore that. However, you also don't want to make that the only place that you try to meet women. There are opportunities to meet women all around you and when you get zoned in on just one place to meet them, you end up missing out on all of the others. You don't want to waste your time doing that when you could be using multiple places to try and meet your next girlfriend.
6) The more sexual attraction that you can create with a woman, the more likely it is that she will become your girlfriend.
No matter what, you have to be able to make a woman feel like she is sexually attracted to you. Thinking that you can get by on other forms of attraction without the sexual attraction is a fool's dream. Without the sexual attraction, you really don't have much to stand on except being a woman's friend and that is okay if you just want friendship. However, if you want something more than that, then you need to find a way to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you.
Here are 6 tips that should make getting a girlfriend seem less like rocket science and more like something that you can easily do:
1) Guys who get girlfriends easily also know how to socialize in many different situations.
Being that meeting women has a lot to do with your social skills, it is easy to understand why this is. When you have the ability to socialize in many different situations, you don't have to worry about being in the right place to do well with women. You'll make any environment become the right place just because you know how to socialize and you know how to position yourself as someone that women want to meet and someone that they want to be around.
2) It's always going to be a numbers game.
I know, it would be nice to have the kind of skill where you could literally get any woman that you want to, but that just isn't being realistic. No matter what, you are going to have to play the numbers a bit. That means that you can't suffer from "one woman only" syndrome where you become attracted to one woman and you can't think about anyone else. That's okay when you are already in a relationship with a woman, but until you get to that point, you do have to play the numbers game a bit and at least have a couple of options.
3) The clothes don't always make the man, but it's easier to make a good impression when you look good.
You don't have to worry so much about the way that you look that you become one of those guys who is obsessed with clothes and hair and that kind of thing. However, to ignore the fact that first impressions do matter and a lot of a woman's first impression IS going to be based on how you look, you don't want to look like a bum. Give yourself the best odds and try to look as good as you can. It's just so much easier to make a good first impression when you do.
4) You need to be aware of the fact that women don't always want what they say that they want.
This is what confuses most men. They hear women talk about meeting nice guys who do all of that sappy stuff right away and you think that this means that this is what they want. Then, you see those same women falling for guys who do none of that stuff and it makes you wonder why that is. It all comes back to the fact that women don't always want the things that they say that they do. You have to pay attention more to what works, versus what women say that they want.
5) Online dating should be a part of your search for a girlfriend, but it should not be the only place that you look.
Nowadays online dating sites are a part of the dating landscape and you don't want to ignore that. However, you also don't want to make that the only place that you try to meet women. There are opportunities to meet women all around you and when you get zoned in on just one place to meet them, you end up missing out on all of the others. You don't want to waste your time doing that when you could be using multiple places to try and meet your next girlfriend.
6) The more sexual attraction that you can create with a woman, the more likely it is that she will become your girlfriend.
No matter what, you have to be able to make a woman feel like she is sexually attracted to you. Thinking that you can get by on other forms of attraction without the sexual attraction is a fool's dream. Without the sexual attraction, you really don't have much to stand on except being a woman's friend and that is okay if you just want friendship. However, if you want something more than that, then you need to find a way to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you.